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To The Kids We Called “Ours”

To the kids who called us their Youth Leaders, and to the ones we hung with every Friday night and through the week.

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We thought we had the whole Youth leader thing figured out. We were teenagers ourselves not that long before. We had the energy, the patience, the crazy ideas and the free weekends to be what we thought we should be.
We read books and went to conferences, we knew the statistics, and we thought that we would be the ones to disciple and teach each one of you, and that we would be instrumental in nurturing the faith you would claim as your own, the same faith you would pass on to your children.

But really, it was the other way around.

You taught us to pray with you every time we got together, to remind us of our priorities and the reason we met every week.

You taught us that standing up for your faith meant listening and doing life together, but most of all, it meant sharing the Gospel with no holds barred.

You taught us to keep our door unlocked, to be willing to invite you in at any time.

You taught us that sometimes we had too many things planned, when really all you needed to do was talk.
You taught us that sometimes you just needed an escape, and sometimes a place to stay the night.

You taught us that you were hungry for the meat of God’s Word, that you could handle so much more depth than we thought.

You taught us that believing something isn’t enough – that we need to be able to explain it clearly and thoughtfully.
You taught us that age doesn’t matter, that the music we listen to or the clothes we wear are unimportant. You taught us that we just needed to be ourselves, and to be willing to share that with you. You taught us to be available.

You taught us that life isn’t easy. Life isn’t fair. You taught us that so many of you were carrying burdens that we had never experienced, and that being a “church kid” didn’t mean you had a perfect home life.

You taught us what it looks like to reach beyond yourselves, what it means to have only your Father God to rely on.

You taught us what it means to have the burden of the Gospel burn so brightly within you that you couldn’t not travel the world to share it.

You taught us what it means to stand up against all that you knew, all that you were taught was right, and speak out for yourself and for others.

Each one of you were, and continue to be, so strong and so courageous. We flatter ourselves when we call you “our kids”.
God blessed us when He allowed us to be a brief part of your life so many years ago. Words you said, things you did, and lessons you taught us pop into our thoughts and conversations so often.

So we thank you. We thank each one of our Youth, and each one of our Static kids. You are a light of encouragement in this dark world, whether you feel like it or not.

And when you find yourself struggling again, facing demons or being torn down?

Know that you are set apart, you are chosen and you were never “ours”.

You. Are. His.

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Megan is a WAHM to 3 (and then some) kids, who spends the majority of her time working as an Administrative Assistant, blogging and washing dishes. She loves to write about her adventures in parenting, running a home daycare, adoption and whatever else strikes her fancy!


  1. Robin Rue (@massholemommy)

    I told my kids yesterday that I was lucky to be picked to be their mom. I think we are lucky to have each other, though 😉

  2. Penny Struebig

    So true!! Your post is so on point. Enjoyed reading it.
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  3. Carmen Perez (listen2mama)

    Loved reading this post today. Every word is so true.

  4. Alisha

    What an awesome post! It’s always amazing how you learn more when you give of yourself and help others. 😉
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  5. Fi Ní Neachtáin

    A really heartfelt post. It’s always great to know that people picked you for a reason and that you could both grow in some way from each others company.

  6. Angelic Sinova

    What an awesome post! I really enjoyed reading this.

  7. Erica Brooks

    Awesome post. It’s amazing what we can learn from children about ourselves and how God sees us.
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  8. Tanj from A Travelogue

    We all belong to Him. Lovely post!

  9. Aisha Kristine Chong

    This is such a wonderful and inspiring post that makes me smile. While I am not a mother yet or anything.. I am always grateful to my mom 🙂
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  10. Miranda (Myrabev)

    Such a lovely and moving post, we belong to our heaven father. I especially loved the part about just because we are church kid does not mean we come from perfect families. This is so true
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  11. Rebecca Swenor

    This is such an amazing post indeed with a awesome message. It is truly so inspiring and so true along with being a reminder to us all. Thanks for sharing.

  12. Michele

    Very good post. It is amazing what others can teach us if we only listen.
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  13. Joanne T Ferguson

    What a great post that brightened my day! I could feel the love and enjoyed learning all the lessons you have learned and been taught along the way!

  14. Travis

    The passion you had/have for the kids you guided shines through in this post. Thank you for answering the calling to mentor the young in Christ.
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  15. Cassie @ Southeast by Midwest

    What a powerful post! These kids were lucky to have you as a youth leader.Thank you for being a beacon in the darkness.
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  16. XmasDolly

    This was a pleasant way to see that the Lord loves all God’s children and we are all children of the Lord. Thank you for sharing.
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  17. jared's mum

    indeed! the youth is oftentimes misunderstood + underestimated, but they understand so much more than we thought they could and can do more than we ever expected from them. they also teach us invaluable lessons about life.
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